You can't move FORWARD when your living in the PAST....
Sometimes you have to just walk away....
Never sell yourself short of what you truly want....
As I've heard more than a million times, most people seem to think that love is lost. Many seem to think that love is just one big game. In some cases, it is. You have to understand that love in the right hands can be the difference between your BREAKDOWN and your BREAKTHROUGH. Granted, there are many definitions of love, but at the end of the day, it all means the same thing. For myself, the definition of love is when you do something for another person, knowing that they can't pay you back. It's easy to do for others when you know that your getting something in return...but what about those people who don't have the money to pay you back??
When looking for a new love, the worse thing that you can do is to bring old baggage from your last relationship into a possible new relationship. When you do that, the new relationship is pretty much doomed. Never punish the NEXT man or woman for waht the LAST person did to you..afterall, thats why they are now the past. When dealing with love, it should indeed come easy and true. But, at the same time, you can't just link up with anybody. This is where a lot of us make our biggest mistake...we get involved with somebody who is unequally yoked mentally and spiritually which leads to the downfalls. In which a lot of times, we can see the "red flags" clearly, but we just choose not to address them. Sure, we have all made this mistake, including myself, which is why you live and learn.
In the end, NEVER sell yourself short of what you TRULY desire. Your love doesn't have to be for a person, it can be for a job that you want, it can be for your business to take off. But, in most cases, when we talk about love, it's about what we want in a mate. Always remember that love doesn't hurt. I f you find yourself in a hurtful situation, get as far away as possible. God has a bigger plan for you, and besides, He doesn't wish for us to be hurt. So next time you ask "God where are you", know He's closer than you think...
Signing Off,
Kidney Kronicles
Your post hits it right on the mark. I believe when there is a possible love that a good clear line of communication should be in affect, or else you might lose out on a great love.
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