In life the one thing that's constant is CHANGE...
As you grow, sometimes you have to let certain ones go...
Waiting time is never wasted time....
In this life, we go through many seasons. Sometimes those seasons last for a short period of time or they can last a life time. Some season that we go through are bad while some seasons we go through are good. At the end of the day, it's life, and we all must live it FULLY. There comes a time where we have to take ourselves out of certain seasons when it comes to re-inventing ourselves for the better. Often times what we are birth into is not where God will keep us. We are not birth to be God's purpose, but we are born to be GREAT.
In order to make it in this life, you have to tap into your VALUE. We don't put enough on how valuable we really are. If you don't do what you are suppose to do, there will be somebody who doesn't receive what they are suppose to get. There is a season where you can be a person's friend, but there comes a time when you have to let them go in order for God to take you where He wants to take you.
If you are not everything that your suppose to be, then how do you figure that your everything that you are suppose to be??? During re-invention, God will add people to your life which means, you will have to let others go. There isn't anything wrong with that. If you aren't careful, those same old people can easily be your downfall....you can't take everybody with you as you grow into who you are suppose to be. It's not that the people that you leave behind are bad, it's just that a lot of them won't understand the journey that you are about to take....at the end of the day...be thankful for your SEASONS, afterall, you can't grow and expand if you haven't been through anything....
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Looking 4 a NEW love? Get rid of the OLD baggage.....
You can't move FORWARD when your living in the PAST....
Sometimes you have to just walk away....
Never sell yourself short of what you truly want....
As I've heard more than a million times, most people seem to think that love is lost. Many seem to think that love is just one big game. In some cases, it is. You have to understand that love in the right hands can be the difference between your BREAKDOWN and your BREAKTHROUGH. Granted, there are many definitions of love, but at the end of the day, it all means the same thing. For myself, the definition of love is when you do something for another person, knowing that they can't pay you back. It's easy to do for others when you know that your getting something in return...but what about those people who don't have the money to pay you back??
When looking for a new love, the worse thing that you can do is to bring old baggage from your last relationship into a possible new relationship. When you do that, the new relationship is pretty much doomed. Never punish the NEXT man or woman for waht the LAST person did to you..afterall, thats why they are now the past. When dealing with love, it should indeed come easy and true. But, at the same time, you can't just link up with anybody. This is where a lot of us make our biggest mistake...we get involved with somebody who is unequally yoked mentally and spiritually which leads to the downfalls. In which a lot of times, we can see the "red flags" clearly, but we just choose not to address them. Sure, we have all made this mistake, including myself, which is why you live and learn.
In the end, NEVER sell yourself short of what you TRULY desire. Your love doesn't have to be for a person, it can be for a job that you want, it can be for your business to take off. But, in most cases, when we talk about love, it's about what we want in a mate. Always remember that love doesn't hurt. I f you find yourself in a hurtful situation, get as far away as possible. God has a bigger plan for you, and besides, He doesn't wish for us to be hurt. So next time you ask "God where are you", know He's closer than you think...
Signing Off,
Kidney Kronicles
Sometimes you have to just walk away....
Never sell yourself short of what you truly want....
As I've heard more than a million times, most people seem to think that love is lost. Many seem to think that love is just one big game. In some cases, it is. You have to understand that love in the right hands can be the difference between your BREAKDOWN and your BREAKTHROUGH. Granted, there are many definitions of love, but at the end of the day, it all means the same thing. For myself, the definition of love is when you do something for another person, knowing that they can't pay you back. It's easy to do for others when you know that your getting something in return...but what about those people who don't have the money to pay you back??
When looking for a new love, the worse thing that you can do is to bring old baggage from your last relationship into a possible new relationship. When you do that, the new relationship is pretty much doomed. Never punish the NEXT man or woman for waht the LAST person did to you..afterall, thats why they are now the past. When dealing with love, it should indeed come easy and true. But, at the same time, you can't just link up with anybody. This is where a lot of us make our biggest mistake...we get involved with somebody who is unequally yoked mentally and spiritually which leads to the downfalls. In which a lot of times, we can see the "red flags" clearly, but we just choose not to address them. Sure, we have all made this mistake, including myself, which is why you live and learn.
In the end, NEVER sell yourself short of what you TRULY desire. Your love doesn't have to be for a person, it can be for a job that you want, it can be for your business to take off. But, in most cases, when we talk about love, it's about what we want in a mate. Always remember that love doesn't hurt. I f you find yourself in a hurtful situation, get as far away as possible. God has a bigger plan for you, and besides, He doesn't wish for us to be hurt. So next time you ask "God where are you", know He's closer than you think...
Signing Off,
Kidney Kronicles
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Old Skool Mama....Nuff said...
For the mamas and grandmothers who raised us....
For staying up late with us while we were sick.....
For praying for us day and night while we ran the streets...
This blog post is a bit different from what I normally do, but this must be done. A lot of times we don't give our mothers enough credit. A lot of times our mothers get the bad wrap for being overprotective of us or for being in our business as we grew up. I thank God daily for mama and the old skool mamas for the roles that they have played in my life.
Some of you might be wondering what an old skool mama is...well; an old skool mama is a mama that would take care of you and give you all that you need, but at the same time would tell you to go pick out your own switch and whoop you with it. An old skool mama is a mama that would stay up late with you and rub you down with Vick's vapor rub, but would also pop up at your school without you knowing just to see what you are doing in class.
There are many old skool mamas that aren't even our mothers...such as an aunt, or a cousin, or even a teacher that got us in line when we were heading down a path of destruction. It is important that we all have a mama. My situation was always a little different growing up because my mother is a little older. Funny thing is, a lot of my friends looked at my mother as their mother as well. She seemed to have all the answers to any questions that we asked. She showed all the TLC that you could ask for, but she was firm at the same time...
In the end, with out an old skool mama, a lot of would be in a world of trouble, and a lot of us wouldn't be living today. So when you see an old skool mama or even a younger mother, show them some love, thank them for what they have done. And if you see a child getting out of line...yea, go ahead and get em in line, otherwise, somebody else is...
Share your memories of your old skool mama...afterall, they are our backbones...
For staying up late with us while we were sick.....
For praying for us day and night while we ran the streets...
This blog post is a bit different from what I normally do, but this must be done. A lot of times we don't give our mothers enough credit. A lot of times our mothers get the bad wrap for being overprotective of us or for being in our business as we grew up. I thank God daily for mama and the old skool mamas for the roles that they have played in my life.
Some of you might be wondering what an old skool mama is...well; an old skool mama is a mama that would take care of you and give you all that you need, but at the same time would tell you to go pick out your own switch and whoop you with it. An old skool mama is a mama that would stay up late with you and rub you down with Vick's vapor rub, but would also pop up at your school without you knowing just to see what you are doing in class.
There are many old skool mamas that aren't even our mothers...such as an aunt, or a cousin, or even a teacher that got us in line when we were heading down a path of destruction. It is important that we all have a mama. My situation was always a little different growing up because my mother is a little older. Funny thing is, a lot of my friends looked at my mother as their mother as well. She seemed to have all the answers to any questions that we asked. She showed all the TLC that you could ask for, but she was firm at the same time...
In the end, with out an old skool mama, a lot of would be in a world of trouble, and a lot of us wouldn't be living today. So when you see an old skool mama or even a younger mother, show them some love, thank them for what they have done. And if you see a child getting out of line...yea, go ahead and get em in line, otherwise, somebody else is...
Share your memories of your old skool mama...afterall, they are our backbones...
Sunday, August 7, 2011
From WORSE 2 FIRST....It's your turn 2 SHINE....
The LAST shall be FIRST....
The MEEK shall INHERIT the Earth...
The race isn't given to the SWIFT...but one who ENDURES the most....
Often times we wonder when it will be our turn to make it big in this life that we live. Often times we look at what others have and ask "Why not me?" Which is correct...why not you? In your wanting more, you first have to be FAITHFUL over what you are currently blessed with. You can't expect to get a HOUSE and you don't keep your APARTMENT clean. Even more important...never envy or wish to be like the next man, afterall, you don't know the hell they are going through to maintain what they have. Just because something looks good from the outside doesn't mean that it's all that on the inside.
As stated before, when your grateful for what you have, God will make you ruler over many...when we are born into this world, we are born at our worse. Granted, there is nothing like a new born baby, that has all the possibility in the world. We are born at our worse because we are born into a world of sin. Yes, it's not our choice, but we do have the choice to be the best that we can be. In your quest for greatness, you will go through ups and downs...the key is to be grateful during the GOOD and the BAD times...afterall, no path is perfect. We have our cuts, scars, and wounds...but we live to tell about it...
So when you think that others are passing you by, that's fine...cause every person has their own path. We have our appointed times and places for everything. You have to understand, it's not meant for everybody to be a millionaire, or even President of the United States..but as long as you run your race the best you can, you will always come out on top...Always remember, you have come from WORSE to FIRST, and you can take that to the bank...
Be sure to pray for somebody other than yourself...don't be selfish with God, afterall, somebody prayed for you when you were at your worse....go ahead and return the favor to somebody else.
The MEEK shall INHERIT the Earth...
The race isn't given to the SWIFT...but one who ENDURES the most....
Often times we wonder when it will be our turn to make it big in this life that we live. Often times we look at what others have and ask "Why not me?" Which is correct...why not you? In your wanting more, you first have to be FAITHFUL over what you are currently blessed with. You can't expect to get a HOUSE and you don't keep your APARTMENT clean. Even more important...never envy or wish to be like the next man, afterall, you don't know the hell they are going through to maintain what they have. Just because something looks good from the outside doesn't mean that it's all that on the inside.
As stated before, when your grateful for what you have, God will make you ruler over many...when we are born into this world, we are born at our worse. Granted, there is nothing like a new born baby, that has all the possibility in the world. We are born at our worse because we are born into a world of sin. Yes, it's not our choice, but we do have the choice to be the best that we can be. In your quest for greatness, you will go through ups and downs...the key is to be grateful during the GOOD and the BAD times...afterall, no path is perfect. We have our cuts, scars, and wounds...but we live to tell about it...
So when you think that others are passing you by, that's fine...cause every person has their own path. We have our appointed times and places for everything. You have to understand, it's not meant for everybody to be a millionaire, or even President of the United States..but as long as you run your race the best you can, you will always come out on top...Always remember, you have come from WORSE to FIRST, and you can take that to the bank...
Be sure to pray for somebody other than yourself...don't be selfish with God, afterall, somebody prayed for you when you were at your worse....go ahead and return the favor to somebody else.
Monday, August 1, 2011
GO get YOUR life back....You owe it to yourself....
You have to go through the storm and rain to get to the sunshine....
You are the ONLY one that controls your happiness...
Be GRATEFUL for your ups and downs....
Life can have a way of knocking us down and daring us to get back up. The struggles of life do indeed happen for each and everyone of us, but in different ways. Believe it or not, we are ALL battled tested. We have ALL overcome a major situation that should have killed us....but we survived! Just think about it, we were blessed to see another day that was not promised to us...so why give up and throw in the towel because we are a little nicked and bruised? You have to understand, there are people who are depending on you. Sad thing is, a lot of you don't see that....We live our lives for not only us, but for our friends and families..and a lot of times for people that you don't even know.
Sometimes we win,sometimes we lose, sometimes were hurt and abused, unfortunately, that's life. But the storms you go through are to make you stronger. When it comes to your happiness, it is indeed your happiness. There will be times we go astray and there will be times we lose our way, which a lot of times is the cause of our unhappiness.
The beautiful thing is...the best is yet to come for all of us. We all have a voice that needs to be heard. Afterall, God sees everything that we go through, afterall, He knows us from the crowns of our heads to our feet. So if you know you aren't in control of your life, I highly encourage you to GO GET YOUR LIFE BACK! If you don't remember anything that I've said...remember this, you ain't seen nothing yet...today is the first day of the BEST days of YOUR life!
Don't forget to support each other, hug somebody, and most importantly...love yourself, it makes it easier to love others....
You are the ONLY one that controls your happiness...
Be GRATEFUL for your ups and downs....
Life can have a way of knocking us down and daring us to get back up. The struggles of life do indeed happen for each and everyone of us, but in different ways. Believe it or not, we are ALL battled tested. We have ALL overcome a major situation that should have killed us....but we survived! Just think about it, we were blessed to see another day that was not promised to us...so why give up and throw in the towel because we are a little nicked and bruised? You have to understand, there are people who are depending on you. Sad thing is, a lot of you don't see that....We live our lives for not only us, but for our friends and families..and a lot of times for people that you don't even know.
Sometimes we win,sometimes we lose, sometimes were hurt and abused, unfortunately, that's life. But the storms you go through are to make you stronger. When it comes to your happiness, it is indeed your happiness. There will be times we go astray and there will be times we lose our way, which a lot of times is the cause of our unhappiness.
The beautiful thing is...the best is yet to come for all of us. We all have a voice that needs to be heard. Afterall, God sees everything that we go through, afterall, He knows us from the crowns of our heads to our feet. So if you know you aren't in control of your life, I highly encourage you to GO GET YOUR LIFE BACK! If you don't remember anything that I've said...remember this, you ain't seen nothing yet...today is the first day of the BEST days of YOUR life!
Don't forget to support each other, hug somebody, and most importantly...love yourself, it makes it easier to love others....
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